Thursday, November 29, 2012

Parashat Vayishlach


Silence isn’t always “golden.”  As parents, we know that sinking feeling when all of a sudden, the voices of the children at play go silent and we rush in to see exactly what they are doing.  There is that silence when we don’t know what to say, don’t know precisely how to use our words.  Silence is not something we usually equate with the sounds of the Lower School.
Exactly what are the sounds of our Lower School?  As I walk through the hallways and stop into the classrooms, I expect to hear anything but silence!  Instead, I hear the melodious sounds of classmates greeting each other in the morning, frequently like long-lost friends!  It is hearing “boker tov” as students enter our hallway.  It is that time of year when I am hearing the sounds of Maoz Tzur and other Chanukah-related songs.  I saw and heard students during this past Tuesday’s indoor recess working out the rules of various games (a very complicated process at best!), laughing together, and cheering each other on.  Mrs. Graber’s music students are continuing with last week’s environmental drumming presentation and are making music with various household items.  The 4th and 5th grade girls’ choir is joining their harmonious voices in preparation for this Sunday’s performance at Barnes and Noble.  A Kindergarten class was moving to the beat of a lively tune and then very seriously talking on Skype to a classmate receiving medical treatment, helping him pass the time in a pleasant way.  Second graders are preparing their songs for their Kabbalat Hachumash.  Fifth Graders are working in small groups, producing original scripts (in Hebrew of course) for class presentations while also working cooperatively in General Studies, listening to each other and incorporating their ideas as they build models of the Original Colonies.  Fourth graders are acting out scenes from the Navi, Sefer Yehoshua, learning how to be spies, as well as focusing on Rashi's Midrashim.  Third grade is enjoying their counting game, going higher and lower, while interspersing humming.
It is the sounds of knowledge and prayer and enjoyment and cooperation, of learning how to relate to others.  As we have returned to school from one holiday and begin to prepare for another, it is beautiful to hear the sounds of learning at its many different levels.  There is the time for silence or quiet, as developmentally appropriate, to use inside voices as well as to listen to others.  We show respect for other people when we use our self-control (this month’s Middah) to listen to their ideas and even consider them, when we show that we know we can learn from others.  However, even given all that, the Lower School is rarely “quiet.”  It is more like a steady hum!  Silence may be “golden;”… that is what the early morning time is for, to appreciate the life that is coming into the building, the sounds that will fill the rooms and ring from the ceilings.
Today we had a few moments of expectant silence, as the students so beautifully and as quietly as possible, lined the Lower school hallways, as a surprise, waiting to cheer on Mr. Quartey as he left to participate in a Chai Lifeline Marathon.  Many of the students had made signs and their exuberance was palpable.  It was a lesson we felt was worth the time taken out of the normal daily routine to show our support, to recognize Mr. Q’s efforts.    What an exciting way to help bring a week to a close.  Shabbat Shalom

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